Grace.
What I crave most when my guilt is exposed. The very thing I'm hesitant to extend when I'm confronted with the guilt of others—especially when their guilt has robbed me of something I consider valuable.
Therein is the struggle, the struggle for grace. It's this struggle that makes grace more story than doctrine. It's the struggle that reminds us that grace is bigger than compassion or forgiveness. That struggle is the context for both. When we are on the receiving end, grace is refreshing. When it is required of us, it is often disturbing. But when correctly applied, it seems to solve just about everything. Contrary to what is sometimes taught, the opposite of grace is not law. As we will discover, God's law is actually an extension of grace. The opposite of grace is simply the absence of grace.
To say that someone deserves grace is a contradiction in terms. You can no more deserve grace than you can plan your own surprise party. In the same way that planning voids the idea of surprise, so claiming to deserve voids the idea of grace. You can ask for it. You can plead for it. But the minute you think you deserve it, the it you think you deserve is no longer grace. It is something you have earned.
But grace can't be earned.
To earn something is to find an equivalent. There is no equivalent where grace is concerned. Grace is birthed from hopeless inequity. Grace is the offer of exactly what we do not deserve. Thus, it cannot be recognized or received until we are aware of precisely how undeserving we really are. It is the knowledge of what we do not deserve that allows us to receive grace for what it is. Unmerited. Unearned. Undeserved. For that reason, grace can only be experienced by those who acknowledge they are undeserving.
From the beginning, the church has had an uneasy relationship with grace. Yet history has shown that the church and Christianity in general fare best when characterized by grace. The church is most appealing when the message of grace is most apparent. Yet grace is often an early casualty in the world of organized religion. The gravitational pull is always toward graceless religion. Instead of defining itself in terms of what it stands for, the church often takes the less imaginative and easier path of defining itself in terms of what it is against.
The odd thing is that when you read the New Testament, the only thing Jesus stood against consistently was graceless religion. The only group he attacked relentlessly was graceless religious leaders. So we should not be surprised when we get to the end of the Gospels and discover that the people who crucified him were those who claimed to know God but knew little of grace. In doing so, they confirmed everything he said about them.
Grace is not a New Testament idea. Grace didn't begin with Jesus. But it was certainly personified by him. John tells us that he was "full of grace and truth" (John 1:14; emphasis added). Not the balance between, but the embodiment of. John speaks of "the fullness of his grace" (1:16), the idea being that in Jesus we get as clear and as close a look as we will ever get of what grace looks like in an otherwise graceless world.
In Jesus there was no conflict between grace and truth. It is that artificial conflict that throws so much of Christianity into disarray. It is our misunderstanding of grace, as modeled and taught by Jesus, that leaves us feeling as if grace allows people to "get by" with things.
But grace doesn't dumb down sin to make it more palatable. Grace doesn't have to. Grace acknowledges the full implication of sin and yet does not condemn.
But not just any grace.
The grace of God.
Man, who is this Andy Stanley guy? Good stuff. He should speak/write more.
Comment by Andrew Wilson - Sep 14, 2010 @ 12:25 PM
Great excerpt; I look forward to reading the rest of “the Grace of God”. Thanks for sharing the e-book version at One Day.
This is the key for how Grace must play out in our gatherings: people called into repentance and into account, but with healing and forgiveness. I think many people think grace means, “oh, it’s all good, fuhgetaboutit”. I’ve seen many churches emphasize the grace part without calling out sin - giving an easy pass.
Comment by Allan White, Luis Palau Association - Sep 15, 2010 @ 12:17 PM
Amazing Grace, how sweet the sound.
He was crucified so that we can receive, live out of that grace and give it out over and over and over.
Yes, it’s true that grace is cheapened. Horrifically so. Not only by murderers, criminals or those completely oblivious of the sorrow they caused others while they demand to be forgiven but by every single Christian that withholds grace from others. Grace is God’s story and it was written before the foundations of the world.
Turning the other cheek can only happen when Jesus dying on the cross was seen and experienced in the depth of our beings and the truth hits home- Yes Lord, for me too.
And having been given that expensive gift, we are invited to join Him in Life. Abundant Life.
There but for the grace of God, go I. O Lord, have mercy on me, a sinner- it’s so hard to do.
Comment by Hanlie Lloyd - Sep 16, 2010 @ 03:59 AM
Andy hits it on the head again! I am so grateful that God “acknowledges the full implication of (my) sin and yet does not condemn.” Amazing grace indeed!
Comment by Glenn Toney - Sep 16, 2010 @ 07:46 AM
Grace is the body of Love
Comment by Alfredo Torres - Sep 17, 2010 @ 08:49 PM